William T Goodall wrote:
On 7 Jul 2010, at 22:45, Dan Minette wrote:
It all has to do with value systems. I was mentioning William, not
as finger pointing, but in recognition that he has a very different
set of values than I do.
I am an honest person who values truth and logical argument and
conducts himself with probity. I suspect that you have a very
different set of values than I do.
...
You are very close to being a troll.
William--
The above seems a bit excessive.
I agree, one's motivations for having children tend
to be complex. We have three, and I can't easily
summarize what we get out of it. By most objective
measures of utility, we're coming out behind.
And yet, it's very rewarding. I guess I'd boil it down
to one sentence as "Children give one's life meaning".
Not that I can define "meaning"!
---David
A well-designed study would definitely control for
wanted versus un-wanted children.
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