Those are the guys who have a photo of their wife naked as the desktop 
wallpaper on their computer.

 

From: AF <af-boun...@af.afmug.com> On Behalf Of Mike Hammett
Sent: Saturday, December 21, 2019 5:05 PM
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Subject: Re: [AFMUG] why can't guys call tech support?

 

At first I thought it was a dominate\submissive thing...  That activity is 
below him, so he makes her do it.

 

That may still be it, but sounds less likely.

 



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From: "Ken Hohhof" <af...@kwisp.com <mailto:af...@kwisp.com> >
To: "AnimalFarm Microwave Users Group" <af@af.afmug.com 
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Sent: Saturday, December 21, 2019 2:00:09 PM
Subject: [AFMUG] why can't guys call tech support?

(rant warning, you might want to hit delete now)

 

Does everyone experience certain customers of the male gender who will call 
their wife, girlfriend or mom (who is usually driving or at work) and have them 
call the ISP about a problem but will never just call directly?

 

Am I lacking in empathy, and these are socially awkward dudes whose only social 
interaction is playing on the Xbox, and thank goodness for the Internet?  They 
may have a genuine medical or psychological condition, but I don’t think it’s 
an inability to talk, they are able to call the female person in their life 
about the Internet problem.

 

I am wondering if I’m just being a dick, having a mental image of these guys 
sitting at home playing games while their wife or mom is out working, and they 
can’t call the Internet place themselves.  Maybe they are stay-at-home dads 
trying to get multiple kids fed and diapers changed while their wife is out 
having a fun time and the least she can do is call and get the Internet fixed.

 

I suspect it’s biology, or how we raise girls vs boys, or maybe the insidious 
effect of online gaming on social skills or lack thereof.

 

Yesterday I was at a quite large house that a family had just closed on, trying 
to set up WiFi throughout the house.  Mom (high powered professional who needs 
Internet for work), dad, daughter home on break from college, and son.  The 
daughter handled all the tech questions and decisions, very good communication 
skills and decision making.  The son hardly said a word, was just waiting for 
the moving truck to bring his Xbox, only concern was Ethernet connection in the 
bedroom that was to be his gaming room, had to be “hardwired”, couldn’t be 
WiFi.  Now maybe he has autism or something, but it just felt like the 
stereotype of young men who can’t talk to other people IRL, only online.

 

OK, sorry, this turned into a rant.  And my question is probably rhetorical.  
I’m pretty sure you all have customers like this.  It’s just frustrating to try 
and do tech support when the person who is actually at the site and 
experiencing the problem doesn’t call himself, he calls someone else who is at 
work or driving or at the store or picking the kids up from school.  I wonder 
how outsourced tech support handles this?  Maybe the obvious way – call us when 
you get home.


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