Jane and Tel,
 
You melt only a small amount of the beeswax.  As soon as melted, remove from 
heat.  Add the coconut oil stir until it melts.   Let it cool a bit, when it 
gets  cloudy, add lavander oil and immediately pour into container where a few 
drops of lavander oil has been previously put. [To test if you have the right 
consistency, put a drop of the coconut oil-beeswax mix on the tip of a spoon, 
if it gets cloudy quickly, and hard enough, then it is ready for the lavander 
oil to be added.]  Cover immediately.  I divide and  put them into several 
small containers then put them in  freezer and it can last for a long time. You 
can leave out one container for  use.  It does not have to be refrigerated.  
 
Melly