On Saturday 10 Mar 2007 1:18 pm, Neha Viswanathan wrote: > They forwarded some of the most obscene mails i have > laid eyes on to each other. The thing is - even if I enjoy the humour - I > have to pretend I don't - because apparently that gives out crazy messages > too.
Whoops - I clicked "send" on my previous message before I intended to. Anyhow - I am oldish now and am out of the casual romance game. But even when I was youger, I was "safe" in a very PC way. I practised the art of looking at eyes alone and never at boobs. I never exchanged unsolicited dirty jokes. I never touched when touching was unnecessary. But I still find that women react to things I begin to say as if I am going to say something dirty. And of course - no matter how much you look at a woman's eyes she will keep checking her clothing as if you are looking at her cleavage. It's almost as if the hand movement checking the clothing is asking for one's gaze to move down Even actresses on TV do that, and only the most sophisticated women are very comfortable about how much cleavage they are showing and are not constantly checking and adjusting just when you happen to look at them or address them. I don't know whether its them or me.. shiv
