The thing is - even if I enjoy the humour - I have to pretend I don't - because apparently that gives out crazy messages too.
This is very interesting. because, yesterday, i was visiting a certain office in an official capacity. I had to wait because there was somebody in with the person i was to meet. So i waited, and during that time i had a conversation with the secretary parked outside. I have met the secretary about twice before (note: secretary is kenyan and fairly attractive...) I dont know how we got there, but at some point the conversation turned to the sexual habits of *her* neighbour... apparently the neighbour's wife had a problem, in that she insisted on having sex fully clothed, otherwise she did not feel comfortable. so the neighbor's wife had come and described the "procedure" of how the deed was done with the husband to the secretary. And the secretary now described the procedure to me. Now mind you, this was a purely casual conversation, it did not imply anything at all, neither from me, nor from her. There were no implicit or explicit messages here. It was clearly understood from both sides... My point with this example is that, this hidden messages business i have gotten only from indian women not from anybody else. Why is this so? A conversation like the above, is in my opinion impossible to make casually with an indian woman....
