I don’t mind the ‘what do you do’ question. I make up an answer that’s both 
true and contextually relevant. What bugs me a lot more is ‘where are you 
from?’ - often with the connotation of ‘where are you really from.’ To which I 
give a nonsensical response - these days it’s Alpha Centauri.
On Oct 9, 2024 at 1:00 PM -0400, Christopher A Kantarjiev via Silklist 
<[email protected]>, wrote:
> I like it!
>
> On 10/9/24 7:56 AM, Hari Shenoy via Silklist wrote:
> > In recent times I've responded with - "I suppose you asked me what I do
> > to earn my paycheck, and I will tell you once you follow me on Spotify"
> > and following that humbleflex, the conversation goes off the rails.
> >
> > On Wed, Oct 9, 2024 at 3:50 PM Chris Kantarjiev via Silklist
> > <[email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
> >
> >
> >
> > On Tue, Oct 8, 2024 at 1:43 PM Udhay Shankar N via Silklist <
> > > [email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>>
> > wrote:
> > >
> > > > This, the most banal of all conversational opening lines, is
> > something I
> > > > discourage at the meetups I organise. So it was interesting to see
> > > > silklister CY Gopinath's take.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > https://www.mid-day.com/news/opinion/article/and-you-do-exactly-
> > what-sir-23407241 <https://www.mid-day.com/news/opinion/article/and-
> > you-do-exactly-what-sir-23407241>
> > > >
> >
> > Depending on the context, I might reply with my actual work
> > situation, but more often I'll say one of
> >
> > I'm a recovering British car addict
> > I'm an aspiring furniture maker
> > I ski as much as possible
> >
> > Those are much more interesting conversational gambits.
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