Re: Why online forums have bad behaviour

2016-05-14 Thread Michael Selik
On Sat, May 14, 2016 at 8:57 AM Ben Finney wrote: > If you dislike someone's behaviour, consider that they may not have a > well-thought-out or coherent rason for it; and, if pressed to come up > with a reason, we will employ all our faculties to *make up* a reason > (typically without be

Re: Why online forums have bad behaviour

2016-05-14 Thread Ben Finney
Ben Finney writes: > TL;DR: because we're all human, and human behaviour needs either > immediate face-to-face feedback or social enforcement to correct > selfishness and abrasiveness. Some people rightly regret this universal human tendency. I have been contacted privately and asked (my paraphr

Re: Why online forums have bad behaviour (was: Steve D'Aprano, you're the "master". What's wrong with this concatenation statement?)

2016-05-12 Thread Jason Friedman
> TL;DR: because we're all human, and human behaviour needs either > immediate face-to-face feedback or social enforcement to correct > selfishness and abrasiveness. Where face-to-face feedback is lacking, > social enforcement needs to take more of the load. > > > Many people have a false sense of

Why online forums have bad behaviour (was: Steve D'Aprano, you're the "master". What's wrong with this concatenation statement?)

2016-05-12 Thread Ben Finney
Michael Torrie writes: > It's really sad to see folks like DFS hop on the list with apparent > enthusiasm for Python and an excitement to learn, only to resort to > name calling and walk away in a huff when folks ask them not to speak > that way around here. I'm not sure why this is. TL;DR: beca