Re: Assertions, challenges, and polite discourse

2010-01-06 Thread r0g
alex23 wrote: > r0g wrote: >> Well I think sometimes, for the sake of expediency and overall >> pleasantness, it's better to let the smaller things go: and if you just >> can't let them go then at least try and issue corrections in a friendly >> manner rather than a cold or pious one. > > The iro

Re: Assertions, challenges, and polite discourse

2010-01-06 Thread alex23
r0g wrote: > Well I think sometimes, for the sake of expediency and overall > pleasantness, it's better to let the smaller things go: and if you just > can't let them go then at least try and issue corrections in a friendly > manner rather than a cold or pious one. The irony, it is too rich... --

Re: Assertions, challenges, and polite discourse

2010-01-06 Thread r0g
Ben Finney wrote: > r0g writes: > >> Ben Finney wrote: >>> People sometimes get upset — on an immediate, irrational level — >>> when their assertions are challenged. There's no denying that >>> emotions entangle our discourse, and our interpretation of the >>> discourse of others. >> That's truer

Re: Assertions, challenges, and polite discourse

2010-01-06 Thread Ben Finney
r0g writes: > Ben Finney wrote: > > People sometimes get upset — on an immediate, irrational level — > > when their assertions are challenged. There's no denying that > > emotions entangle our discourse, and our interpretation of the > > discourse of others. > > That's truer than most people appr

Re: Assertions, challenges, and polite discourse

2010-01-06 Thread r0g
Ben Finney wrote: > In fairness, the “No” was in response, not to an explicit question, but > to an assertion. > > Every assertion expressed, though, implies the question “is this > assertion true?”. It was that question that was answered “No” (followed > by an explanation of why the assertion was

Assertions, challenges, and polite discourse (was: Exception as the primary error handling mechanism?)

2010-01-06 Thread Ben Finney
Grant Edwards writes: > Answering a yes/no question with "no" doesn't seem to me to be > combative if the correct answer is indeed "no". But I've lost > track of the post you found objectionable... In fairness, the “No” was in response, not to an explicit question, but to an assertion. Every a