Re: SORBS SPAM, do I have to bother?

Sorbs can be devilish and you should be concerned. My first question to you though is do you have a signup process and does it have a captcha? If you do and do not include a captcha, you should first resolve that by installing a captcha. Most likely sorbs will say that they have an email that p

Re: can someone explain this SPF fail to me

Why do you even have this record? "v=spf1 include:_spf.google.com ~all" Did you get it from here? https://support.google.com/a/answer/178723 You already have what you need for Google site verification, so unless you have a good specific reason for it, you should drop that line altogether. Also,

Re: AOL won't even talk to me

IP reputation can be a difficult issue, especially in the first couple months. Can you telnet to: mailin-01.mx.aol.com 25 ? (That will give you some indication) How is your SPF Record ?