Leah,
I probably can't add much to the discussion that hasn't already been 
mentioned aside from more personal anecdotes, but catching up on this 
thread has ignited some thoughts and reminiscing so will try my best to 
share my .02 cents without being redundant.  Fortunately, you have more 
time to figure things out but that same time leads to more fretting and 
potential for circumstances to change but best of luck with this decision 
and to your son on his journey either way.  Initially, I leaned to the 'get 
the lay of the land' perspective before being pressured to make a 'which 
bike decision' but I then realized this is also somewhat ironic in that 
depending on the school/campus just having a bike those first few weeks 
could in turn help your son get a better lay of he land!  

I attended a small, suburban, public school - I had no need for 
transportation to get around campus as it was easily walkable no matter 
where your dorm or classes were.  I didn't have a car on campus until 
halfway through my 2nd year. I didn't have a bike on campus until my 3rd 
year when I moved into an off-campus, but very local, private rental with 
friends and transported the bike from home to school in my own vehicle.  I 
was a fairweather bike commuter that 3rd year but had a garage to store it 
and never kept it locked overnight (that I recall) but would leave it 
locked up for extended periods in a somewhat high traffic area.  It was a 
90's MTB that I bought new at around 14-15yrs old as my first proper bike 
shop bike.  It was ridden heavily until I began driving.  Then it collected 
dust, aside from occasional summer use, until I came back to school that 
3rd year.  I was fortunate to go unscathed that year with nothing more than 
a small cable lock for security and still have the frame in use today!  
It's a basic, rigid MTB Mongoose branded bike which had reliable Shimano 
3x7 indexed components but by that point I think Mongoose had already 
devolved into a low end big box brand so wasn't likely drawing too much 
attention from even opportunistic thieves even though it predated the 
Mongoose sale/demise and is a decent Taiwan made chromoly frame with full 
Shimano components.  Despite sitting for a few years it showed it's age 
from it's heavy initial use and remained almost entirely stock with little 
more maintenance than an occasional chain lube.  I didn't have racks or 
carry spare tubes or a pump or anything and was really fortunate going 
flat-less and theft free that entire year (I'd eventually learn the hard 
way several years later to prepare and be self sufficient for flats and 
roadside mechanical failures!) 

4th year I moved further away into another rental and the bike went back 
home.  In hindsight, and based on my adult biking experience, the distance 
was certainly 'bike-commutable' but this rental lacked a garage so bike 
storage would have been relegated to a covered porch but in a more theft 
prone neighborhood so I just abandoned it for the year knowing I'd use it 
very little that year.  I was a 5th year undergrad student after cutting 
back to part time for my 4th year and brought the bike back for my 5th and 
final year but not for commuting purposes.  I moved even further from 
campus but we found a nice house adjacent to a rail trail system so the 
bike was purely for leisure rides along the trails that year and I again 
had a garage for overnight storage.

My own early college experience was also based on the fact that I did not 
come from a bicycle-centric family.  I rode everywhere in my teens but we 
as a family were nowhere near prepared to transport my bike to school that 
first or second year.  You already have that part all figured out with a 
car rack, etc.  Some dorms had racks out front but my sophomore dorm had 
basement bike storage - looking back I should have at least taken advantage 
of that opportunity with the basement bike rack.  I could have ventured off 
campus more frequently and at my leisure without relying on hitching a ride 
or borrowing a friends car.  Those fist two years were actually rather 
confining now that I reflect on it.  There was no need for transportation 
to get around campus just a need for transportation to get away from 
campus.  As a freshman I also lost my father unexpectedly a month into 
school and that set an unexpected trajectory into diving deep into my 
coursework but also into partying at the same time.  I was already a night 
owl in highschool but further deepened this routine of staying up all night 
and sleeping all day.  In hindsight, having a bicycle available may have 
provided more opportunities to explore other interests besides video games, 
partying, and my coursework and may have provided a little more motivation 
to get out and explore around town on weekends rather than choosing the 
more self destructive uses of my time.  Maybe... though probably not... 
just knowing where I was at the time and not having the overall interest in 
cycling I do now... but maybe.  I also tend to care for my belongings so 
would not have likely neglected a bike on campus knowing it was my only 
bike and only escape vehicle.

Guess you could make this one long winded vote to stick some Huffy stickers 
on the Clem downtube!

Brian Cole
Lawrenceville
On Wednesday, August 16, 2023 at 1:52:46 PM UTC-4 Davey Two Shoes wrote:

> Send Grandpa's Clem! 
>
> On Tuesday, August 15, 2023 at 6:29:17 PM UTC-4 Will wrote:
>
>> Oh yes.... it might help a bit if the bike didn't look so new. With a few 
>> duct tape patches that can be easily solved without hurting the frame. 
>>
>> On Tuesday, August 15, 2023 at 5:24:24 PM UTC-5 Will wrote:
>>
>>> When I was in college I had a Raleigh Competition and a Raleigh RRA 
>>> (French metric Raleigh bike). It was a small campus in Williamsburg, VA. I 
>>> had no problems with either bike. Yes, I locked them. Yes, I didn't leave 
>>> them out at night and so on, but my point is... with a good U lock and 
>>> maybe some wheel theft clamps, I think you'll be fine. No one is looking 
>>> for a classic steel bike  these days. Now they want carbon and disc brakes. 
>>> And there are plenty of those bikes to steal. I'd give him the Clem. 
>>>
>>> Will
>>>
>>> On Tuesday, August 15, 2023 at 4:05:31 PM UTC-5 mmille...@gmail.com 
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> I've been thinking about this situation a lot. (And thinking back about 
>>>> 20 years to my time in college.) I was from a small town, and went to a 
>>>> large public school. I learned a lot, and a lot of learning is through 
>>>> mistakes. I did lots of dumb stuff, and minus the time I went flying over 
>>>> the handlebars and got an ambulance ride, I was lucky to escape without 
>>>> life-altering implications. My grandpa died when I was in college, and I 
>>>> still treasure a few small items I have from him. Ultimately, things are 
>>>> things, but some things mean more than others. It will be up to your 
>>>> family 
>>>> to decide the best route. I'm not sure it's been mentioned before, but any 
>>>> thought to taking an entirely different bike first semester/first year 
>>>> with 
>>>> the plan to revisit taking the Clem second semester/sophomore year? 
>>>>
>>>> Good luck with your decision.
>>>> Matt in STL
>>>>
>>>> On Tuesday, August 15, 2023 at 2:56:34 PM UTC-5 Doug H. wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Great story Mackenzy! I think many of us started on BMX bikes. I was 
>>>>> an 80s kid and the group of guys in my neighborhood all had BMX bikes. In 
>>>>> college I rode a Trek mountain bike (low end) but also had a car so the 
>>>>> bike was primarily for exercise. I tried single speed a few years ago and 
>>>>> really enjoy the simplicity of it even with the limitations.
>>>>> Doug
>>>>>
>>>>> On Tuesday, August 15, 2023 at 3:31:13 PM UTC-4 Mackenzy Albright 
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> Admittedly, I had almost the exact opposite issue as a college 
>>>>>> student. I grew up without cyclists in my family, and think it's so rad 
>>>>>> that there are parents like Leah to give a good starting point of living 
>>>>>> a 
>>>>>> happily car free college life. 
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I was messy messy messy in my hyperfocus niche interests (bikes). As 
>>>>>> an adolescent I got into bmx bikes. I had a very high end BMX I kept in 
>>>>>> my 
>>>>>> dorm room under my bunk for the first two years. I worked at a skatepark 
>>>>>> and rode with many professional friends. Eventually, a visiting friend 
>>>>>> "from the city" brought his IRO fixed gear. I was absolutely smitten. He 
>>>>>> taught me about fixed gear conversions - so I went to one on one bike 
>>>>>> studios in Minneapolis and Gene helped me pick out a beat Schwinn Letour 
>>>>>> in 
>>>>>> my size and parts I needed to convert it to fixed. 
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Within the next few months - I befriended a local bike shop worker 
>>>>>> who talked me into buying a 54cm Surly steam roller frame (I am 6' 2" 
>>>>>> mind 
>>>>>> you) for nearly wholesale as it'd been sitting for ever a year. My IRO 
>>>>>> friend came back and took me down the biggest hill in town (sanfrancisco 
>>>>>> style) on that brakeless steamroller. Literally probably the stupidest 
>>>>>> day 
>>>>>> of my life. We continued on a 40+K ride in the country side to a 
>>>>>> waterfall 
>>>>>> and it blew my mind. My friend with the IRO was also into racing on a 
>>>>>> geared bike - and informed me on the magic of "geared bikes" 
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I sold the steamroller and dropped all my savings on a Long haul 
>>>>>> Trucker. Except - except they all fit weird and I didn't like the 
>>>>>> loooong 
>>>>>> top tube after a short period. So I traded it for Cross check. I 
>>>>>> despised 
>>>>>> the cross check frame even more - but somebody offered to trade a geared 
>>>>>> Karate Monkey for my Cross check. I rode the Karate Monkey for a while, 
>>>>>> but 
>>>>>> fell back in love with single speeds, so converted it to single speed 
>>>>>> and 
>>>>>> rode that a long time. To my detriment "Ride the Divide" came out. Mark 
>>>>>> Remier's first Generation Salsa Fargo was on display - dirt and all at 
>>>>>> the 
>>>>>> premier. Within the week I rode to Angry Catfish and picked up a Fargo 
>>>>>> in 
>>>>>> my size. I loved that bike. That concluded my undergrad....I wont even 
>>>>>> start on my bikes during my "Grad school years" 
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I was quite..."promiscuous" in my bike building because "college" is 
>>>>>> for experimenting right? (I never drank or did drugs - most of my bike 
>>>>>> dealings were trade/second hand based being in QBP land) There was just 
>>>>>> so 
>>>>>> much to learn and try out -  I couldn't get enough. There were 
>>>>>> definitely 
>>>>>> other bikes and builds in there I am forgetting like a shogun touring 
>>>>>> bike 
>>>>>> etc. and lots of BMX bikes. That was just my undergrad...20 years later. 
>>>>>> Oof - not going to think too hard about it. But the enthusiasm hasn't 
>>>>>> stopped.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I think it's super cool to have an option for such a versatile bike 
>>>>>> from the get go and supportive parents for a *much* better starting 
>>>>>> point. 
>>>>>> I absolutely believe that Leah's kid is in good hands. Who knows what'll 
>>>>>> happen, but he's got a great bike to work with and obviously a lot of 
>>>>>> love 
>>>>>> and support which is super great. 
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On Tuesday, August 15, 2023 at 11:46:56 AM UTC-7 Joe Bernard wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>>> This is going great you guys. I think it was clear after many days 
>>>>>>> and many posts that the question is "what bike?", not does the kid even 
>>>>>>> want one. It'd be super if we could stick with that. 
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> On Tuesday, August 15, 2023 at 11:38:13 AM UTC-7 Patrick Moore wrote:
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Sorry, I have to agree with both Johns; the question seemed to be 
>>>>>>>> serious and without condescension. The triple question marks indicate 
>>>>>>>> reserve in asking the question and not exasperation or putdown; 
>>>>>>>> "Perhaps 
>>>>>>>> you might consider ...?"
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> On Tue, Aug 15, 2023 at 12:02 PM Doug H. <dhansf...@gmail.com> 
>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> John,
>>>>>>>>> I took the question exactly as Leah interpreted it. The triple 
>>>>>>>>> question mark at the end of the question was pretty emphatic. Take a 
>>>>>>>>> breath? Really man?
>>>>>>>>> Doug
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> On Tuesday, August 15, 2023 at 1:57:37 PM UTC-4 John Phillips 
>>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> Leah, please take a breath and count to 10.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> John's question wasn't rude, and was a fair question in that the 
>>>>>>>>>> *strength 
>>>>>>>>>> of his desire *for a bike at college *could* correlate to the 
>>>>>>>>>> amount of attention he would give to keeping the bike secure.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> You did ask for people's opinions, so please just ignore those 
>>>>>>>>>> you don't like.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> John 
>>>>>>>>>> On Tuesday, August 15, 2023 at 2:22:12 AM UTC-7 Bicycle Belle 
>>>>>>>>>> Ding Ding! wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> John,
>>>>>>>>>>> Text makes it hard to tell sometimes, so I suppose I’ll ask.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> 1. Is your question asked because you have the perfect bike 
>>>>>>>>>>> waiting for him that you would like to gift him?
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> 2. Is your question being asked because you are genuinely 
>>>>>>>>>>> confused about the topic of the conversation?
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> 3. Or is your question posed so as to look down on me, as if I 
>>>>>>>>>>> was imposing my choices on my son?
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>

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