On May 7, 2012, at 11:35 AM, Ask Bjørn Hansen wrote:

> On May 7, 2012, at 11:26, Matt Simerson wrote:
> 
>> Is there some community I'm unaware of where replying to the individual on a 
>> public list is the norm? 
> 
> The mistake of replying to the individual is cheap.

It also requires extra effort on the vast majority of replies. The point of 
being on a public list is to encourage "group" discussion, and replying to the 
list facilitates that. Requiring extra effort to do that is not expensive but 
is is frequent. It's death by a thousand paper cuts. 

The "easy" workaround of Reply-All means recipients get duplicate emails by 
hitting "Reply-All".  Of course, good MUA's suppress the duplicate, but it's 
still wasteful. For the obsessive, that don't like burdening other users with 
Reply-All detritus, just in case the senders MUA sucks, or they're reading 
email on a phone where bandwidth isn't cheap/free, I manually change the 
reply-to address on every single email.

> The mistake of replying to the list is potentially expensive in time wasted, 
> embarrassment, etc.

And it's also rare. In the 1990's, and perhaps even early 2000's when mailing 
lists were new, this argument had some validity. But everyone that ever might 
join a mailing list already has, and practically every one has already made the 
"oops, that should have been private" mistake. Because practically every list 
currently has Reply-To as the default, it is "what is expected" by list users.

> http://www.unicom.com/pw/reply-to-harmful.html
> http://woozle.org/~neale/papers/reply-to-still-harmful.html

Those arguments held some weight 10 years ago. If that were the default on most 
lists today, the world might be a better place. Or not. But either way, besides 
a rare few holdouts, that's just not how anyone expects mailing lists to work.

Matt

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