Hi Michael, First of all thanks for your help.
I did this in the AddType-section of the httpd.conf file.#AddType application/x-httpd-php .php #AddType application/x-httpd-php-source .phps
which i have to uncomment are NOT there. ??
Then add these lines (copy and paste to avoid typos) and remove the "#".
I did ./configure --with-apxs ; no error messages, so i suppose everything went well. But php isn't running after restarting gracefully apache..Maybe i have to configure my apache again?
You only have to rebuild your Apache if you can't use --with-apxs on PHP's configure command line. If you have an "apxs" program (from your current Apache install), you don't have to re-install Apache. Just use --with-apxs, and if you get an error saying that the apxs program could not be found, use --with-apxs=/path/to/your/apxs.
I read at http://nl2.php.net/manual/en/install.macosx.php you had to configure httpd (apache) --enable-shared=max \ . Would that be it?
sara