So sensitive when YOU are the one under the microscope! I note you did not show the same restraint with the other poster, who posted a warning from which many people on this list could be expected to benefit.
Being unable to pay the seller is completely different from simply backing out because you got "bad vibes," which is what you originally wrote in your little lecture. If you choose to be indignant because you misstated yourself, well, I guess that's your choice. Now think, think hard, I know it will be difficult for you to understand; people can only respond to what you post. BTW, even though the eBay feedback rant was somewhat of a non sequitur, feedback on eBay *does* list whether the member was the seller or buyer in the transaction in question. Quoting graywolf <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>: > Now think, think hard, I know it will be difficult for you to understand; if > I > could not communicate with with a live person so they could get their money, > > what chance of fixing any problems do you think I would have had. > Since I have had dealings with several people on this list I do not think > there > is any question of my honesty here. > > > > Bucky wrote: > > > He is more likely to discount your opinion on the basis of the (first) > > comment quoted below. > > > > "Backing out," a.k.a. 'welshing,' has wider implications than simply > > accepting negative feedback; it undermines the entire system by which that > > forum is able to go on working. "Bad vibes" are reliably and honorably > cured > > by using an escrow service. > > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: graywolf [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > > Sent: October 26, 2003 16:51 > > To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > Subject: Re: Ebay > > [snip] > > Once I got such bad vibes I decided to not go through with the deal and > > accept > > the negative feedback myself. > > [snip] > > Of course since I have sold a half dozen items on Ebay I see you you have > > already discounted my opinion. Oh well... > > > > > > > > -- > graywolf > http://graywolfphoto.com > > "You might as well accept people as they are, > you are not going to be able to change them anyway." > > ------------------------------------------------- This mail sent through IMP: http://horde.org/imp/

