> kalo menurut teori fsikologi , > orang begnian, > di kehidupan sehari2nya adalah "loser"
jadi pengen iseng nie... ;-) WINNERS VS LOSSERS Winners are always part of the answer Losers are often part of the problem Winners say �may I do it for you?� Losers say �that�s not my job� Winners see an answer for � and possibilities behind every problem Losers see a problem behind every answer Winners say � it may be difficult, but it is possible� Losers say �it may be possible, but it is too difficult� When a winner makes a mistake, he says �I was wrong� When a loser makes a mistake, he says �it wasn�t my fault� Winners dare to make commitments Loser dare not dream but have schemes Assalamu'alaikum wr. wb. Winners have concrete programs Losers always have excuses Winners are a part of the team Losers are a part from the team Winners see the gain Losers see the pain Winners believe in win-win Losers believe that for them to win some one has to lose Winners see the potentials, the future Losers see the weakness, see the past Winners use hard-strong arguments but soft words Losers use weak arguments but hard words Winners stay firm on values but compromise on petty things Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values Winners make things happen Losers watch things happen ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Boss & Pemimpin Betapa sering orang gagal untuk menjadi pemimpin karena mereka tidak berlaku sebagai pemimpin melainkan berlaku sebagai boss. H Gordon Selfridge adalah pendiri salah satu department store (pusat perbelanjaan) di London yang merupakan salah satu department store terbesar di dunia. Ia mencapai kesuksesan tersebut dengan menjadi seorang 'Pemimpin' dan bukan dengan menjadi 'Boss'. Apakah perbedaan antara pemimpin dengan boss? Di bawah ini adalah perbandingan yang diberikan oleh Gordon Selfridge antara orang yang bertipe pemimpin dan orang yang bertipe boss. Seorang boss mempekerjakan bawahannya; Tetapi seorang pemimpin mengilhami mereka, Seorang boss mengandalkan kekuasaannya; Tetapi seorang pemimpin mengandalkan kemauan baik. Seorang boss menimbulkan ketakutan; Tetapi seorang pemimpin memancarkan kasih. Seorang boss mengatakan 'aku'; Tetapi seorang pemimpin mengatakan 'kita'. Seorang boss menunjukkan siapa yang bersalah; Tetapi seorang pemimpin menunjukkan apa yang salah. Seorang boss tahu bagaimana sesuatu dikerjakan' Tetapi seorang pemimpin tahu bagaimana mengerjakannya. Seorang boss menuntut rasa hormat; Tetapi seorang pemimpin membangkitkan rasa hormat; Seorang boss berkata, 'Pergi!'; Tetapi seorang pemimpin berkata, 'Mari kita pergi!' Maka jadilah seorang pemimpin, dan bukan seorang boss. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ --- In obrolan-bandar@yahoogroups.com, "twstd_trader" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > kalo di filem2 silat atau filem2 mafia, > orang yang ngaku2 anggota geng mah biasanya cuma kroco doang > > ini bandar sedeng ( eh salah ketik ... sedang ) > ngakunya lawannya FM2 lain, tapi bukannya trading malah berkoar doang > and nakut2in orang, > > kalo menurut teori fsikologi , > orang begnian, > di kehidupan sehari2nya adalah "loser" > > --- In obrolan-bandar@yahoogroups.com, "Bandar Sedang" <bejtrader@> > wrote: > > > > Nope.....I'm one of the GANK member.... > > so what for I Kejedut....kekekeke............ > > > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: Armando Anthony > > To: obrolan-bandar@yahoogroups.com > > Sent: Wednesday, December 12, 2007 3:40 PM > > Subject: Re: [obrolan-bandar] Re: Our tank is full > > > > > > > > Pak BEJ Trader ini mungkin banyak sering KEJEDUT dan loss. > > > > Pernah Kejedut MIRA, mungkin diatas 700 waktu itu, terus UNSP, > mungkin diatas 2200. Mungkin sekarang kejedut ANTM, diatas 5000. > > > > Sabar...sabar... > > > > Rei <highwaystar91@> wrote: > > Just curious, why do you have to show so much hatred over this > small > > matter (that antm will/will not become 5000)? It's only stock, > > market will decide later on where antm will be. If you wish to > > unload, feel free to do it. Don't be mistaken as I am NOT > > challenging you or anything (I don't have the position to do so), > > but I feel everyone has got the right to do/think whatever one > > pleases to... No need to threaten anyone here. Are you Pedagang > > Kentang? Hehehe... Peace! > > > > --- In obrolan-bandar@yahoogroups.com, "Bandar Sedang" > > <bejtrader@> wrote: > > > > > > You WILL NOT SEE ANTM 5000 this week.... > > > > > > OKAY ? > > > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > From: abdulrahim abdulrahim > > > To: obrolan-bandar@yahoogroups.com > > > Sent: Wednesday, December 12, 2007 2:06 PM > > > Subject: Re: [obrolan-bandar] Re: Our tank is full > > > > > > > > > Just try it pak Bandar Senang. Jangan omong doang dong .... > > kekekeke > > > > > > On Dec 12, 2007 7:06 AM, Bandar Sedang <bejtrader@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Both of you just talking SH*T..... > > > > I'll unload MINE....... > > > > > > > > Wanna TRY ? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > > From: tbumi > > > > To: obrolan-bandar@yahoogroups.com > > > > Sent: Wednesday, December 12, 2007 12:47 PM > > > > Subject: [obrolan-bandar] Re: Our tank is full > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In obrolan-bandar@yahoogroups.com, "RATU SIMA" <RATUSIMA@> > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > I'll lead ANTM zone to regain 5000. > > > > > > > > > > In full force and ammunition! > > > > > > > > > > Love, > > > > > Aimee > > > > > SIP : TBUMI > > > > > > > > Percaya saja yg optimis, maka anda pasti akan mendapatkannya > > > > dlm waktu dekat. > > > > ANTM bisa rebound kembali. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Looking for last minute shopping deals? 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