Is this Homophobia? A while back I had an internet chat session with a so called straight guy who indulges in gay sex once in a while maybe for some sexual experimentation. This guy has chatted with me in the past quite politely and we have also indulged in cyber sex through internet one or two occasions. But today he came across as an extremely homophobic person and became needlessly became belligerent and started making personal attacks on me.The idea to put the transcript of this homophobic chat session in my blog hit me at the fag end of my chat.
Indian Guy is me and The Rock is the homophobic guy I was chatting with. The chat session begins as follows: the rock: what's this? indian guy: it is my blog on gay issues indian guy: please check my blog the rock: so why u have gay issues? the rock: its just a sex issue indian guy: read my blogposts for answers the rock: which u can solve it in 4 walls on a bed the rock: na i dont hate the gays but i hate the way gays expresses themselves as a victims the rock: n why gays have to come as gays in the society the rock: they can b a normal person nobody is aksing u with whom u r sleeping the rock: u thr? indian guy: yes indian guy: do u know having gay sex was against indian law till 2009 and still u ask why gays were expressing themselves as victims? the rock: so no-one is coming in ur bedroom to see with shom u r doing sex the rock: if u r doing it in public areas u have to b punished the rock: don't u? indian guy: what u r talking are not gay issues ? sex in public is not an issue indian guy: decriminalisation of gay sex is a issue with the supreme court about to take a decision indian guy: and people don t have sex in public , gay or straight the rock: ok so now u r happy so u want to celebrate in gate way of india the rock: whats ur issue the rock: now u get decriminalised indian guy: why don t u read my blog? the rock: so stop being as victim indian guy: decriminalisation of homosexuality is an urgent need. the rock: na when the writer is with me why should i go the rock: n why is that? indian guy: i am not being victim , it is all your perception indian guy: i am not a victim the rock: u know the country like india has its very basic needs tht r remain unfulfilled so plz dont force one more indian guy: decriminalisation of gay sex is urgently required the rock: indian children r starving they r not getting education the rock: n why it is required so u can have gay or lesbian marriages? the rock: why u think it is as urgent need indian guy: the point of indian children u r making is irrelevant to the discussion , gay marriage is a separate issue from decriminalisation of gay sex which is in courts. the rock: r the homosexuals dying without it? the rock: ya i know the rock: but if the main issues r not fulfilled why u r forcing one more? the rock: which i think of so importance the rock: n who u r? the rock: voice of lbgt community. indian guy: did i say that ? i think u assume a lot of things.i make no tall claims of being a voice of any group. the rock: no i m saying why u r representing them indian guy: i am not a representatives of gays indian guy: though i am a gay guy the rock: ok so what u want indian guy: decriminalisation of homosexuality in india the rock: means why u required that decriminalised the rock: ok so supreme court accept it right the rock: so it will b done the rock: so why u r fighting now? indian guy: i don't think i am fighting now , i think u assume a lot of things indian guy: i said , read my blog , there was never a hint of fight indian guy: don t read if u don t want to the rock: hey u think u r the cool gay guy n u can handle this all the rock: let me tell u mr cool guy indian guy: here u go again ........ with your assumptions the rock: if u r not following the indian constitution dont keep your nick as indian guy the rock: u r not an indian guy the rock: oh thank u for noticing indian guy: u r mistaken when u feel i am not following indian constitution , this is one of the most bizarre remark i have heard about myself indian guy: and i am an indian guy regardless of what u say the rock: ya u r bcoz u r breaking the constitution of indiaso u will bcome not indian guy the rock: so ur parents know that u r a gay? indian guy: i am not breaking indian constitution and no my parents do not know of my being gay the rock: hey congrats the rock: u r brave enough to write a few lines on blog the rock: but u cant tell this to ur parents the rock: good the rock: n u r assuming urself as a leader in this fight of homosexuality indian guy: it is not me who is the leader of gays , it is u who assumes a lot of things without basis the rock: oh so enlighten my poor brain with ur supreme gay brain indian guy: are you a hard core straight guy? don t u ever have gay sex? the rock: i not hard core gay sex the rock: i just want u guys to shut ur fuking mouth the rock: dont pretend to b a victim the rock: n dont ask for mercy of constitution indian guy: you are talking like a HOMOPHOBIC person the rock: ya ya i get tht the rock: means the ppl who dont like u r evil minded the rock: n u homosexuals r angels,nonsense! the rock: u stick name to them as homophobic n u r the homosexuals the rock: u there ? indian guy: yes the rock: so indian guy: so what? the rock: so dont u like ur parents status n dignity or respect indian guy: why are you dragging my parents into this chat ? the rock: why u r ruining theor respect for ur 5 mins intercources everyday with someone have the same genetics as u the rock: dragging ur parents bcoz u r a gay the rock: n u r writing a blog for gay freedom indian guy: i do nothing of all what you are saying . those are all your assumptions, at least read the blog to find out all you r saying is a figment of ur imagination. indian guy: and i think you do what all u are accusing me of doing. the rock: yes u r accused of parent betrayal indian guy: you are being extremely spiteful for no reason or provocation the rock: oh nice heavy words !!! the rock: but it aint gonna save u Last message received on 3/25 at 10:14 PM BUZZ!!! the rock has signed out. (3/25/2012 10:17 PM) He logged out abruptly cutting short the chat session and I could not inform him that I would put our chat session details in gay bombay group. I would like all group members to say whether they find my chat friend homophobic?
