Hello Jason Jun Pln Chaya Gail and all, Since Pln has too much on her plate these days,if you don't mind,Jason,I'll answer your question on her behalf.;)
Building a relationship isn't difficult. It isn't that different between one with another company,country or person. To make them trust you,you have to mean every word you say and keep your promises. Excuses can be made,reasons can be spilled out if you can't meet with the deadlines or materialize the projects. As long as the channels of communication are open,everything is tangible to me. It's through countless times of negociations,compromises and concessions that trust and respect is earned... Once you have the trust of your partner,he/she will always give you the benefit of doubt first... which makes misunderstandings or misinterpretations more unlikely to happen. There's nothing worse than giving or being given a cold treatment! Anyone who's been in a relationship will definitely know how it feels! LOL The opposite of love isn't hate as most people believe...is indifference as Pln used to say occaisionally,isn' it? And Jun,as long as you didn't do it intentionally,you're not guilty! Just continue to post as many threads as we do,then we can spare you the Chinese tortures!LOL Great start of the week as usual, Claire On Oct 25, 5:35 pm, <[email protected]> wrote: > Dear Pln, > > I apologize about the mistake. I use Microsoft Outlook to get email and > unintentionally I reply the original thread, change the old subject into > new ones and it will become a new post. I didn't know that it still > stays the same in the original thread. > I will notice about this in next times. > > Nice week to you all, > Jun > > > > -----Original Message----- > From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] > > On Behalf Of pln471 > Sent: Sunday, October 25, 2009 4:55 PM > To: ESL Podcast Study Group > Subject: [ESL Podcast] Re: Do you believe in 'second chance?' > > Hello Claire Chaya Jason Ed Marcio Jun Reinaldo Gail Vera Charles,one > member from Inia with sanskrit id and all,:) > > What Claire tried to do by asking this simple question is for us all > to elaborate however we like based on what we think. > > Second chances can relate to love,work and family relationships at > least,and let alone criminals who have done their time in jail,etc. > > I believe in giving and creating second chances for those who have > done others wrong unintentionally or accidentally... > for whatever problems which are fixable and whatever situations which > are divertable. > > In saying so,you have to be aware that it depends on each individual > to exercise his/her own judgment... > Thus it becomes a matter of willingness... > > Either you want to forget and forgive as a fool or to forgive but not > to forget as a wise person. > Or you choose neither to forgive nor forget and hold grudges for the > rest of your life... > > 'Trust' is crucial here on this issue.Once it's broken or > damaged,there's no gaining back... > > My 2 cents and that's all!;) > > Great Sunday,everyone! > Pln > P.S.Jun,it's the second time you stole our original thread!!! > Why can't you just click on 'new post' and post your own questions?! > LOL > So those who haven't responded to all threads by you,Claire or me can > view all threads better!;) > Have some mercy and thank you! > You know it's not easy to come up with questions which most people > like to respond!LOL > > On Oct 17, 6:14 pm, Chaya Eitan <[email protected]> wrote: > > Jun, > > > That example of 'burning the boats' is from the book, "Think and Grow > Rich." As I wrote before, G-d always gives us a 'second chance' (not > 'change'). We just have to learn to recognize it when it is presented > to us! > > > Chaya > > > --- On Fri, 10/16/09, [email protected] <[email protected]> > wrote: > > > From: [email protected] <[email protected]> > > Subject: [ESL Podcast] Re: Do you believe in 'second chnace?' > > To: [email protected] > > Date: Friday, October 16, 2009, 9:58 AM > > > Hello everyone, > > > Second change or third change is dependant on attitude, > characteristic, > > ambition of each person. However, it is said that: "People never > satisfy > > with what they are having". It is a popular trend of people. As chaya > > said, the importance is the way to make a second change, but no body > > ensures this decision is right in long terms. However, you should not > > regret what you choose. > > A small illustration is that: After crossing the river, you should > fire > > or damage your boat LOL in order to say to yourself that you don't > have > > the road to come back. Try to go forth and confront with what waiting > > you ahead > > > Nice weekend!!! > > Jun > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] > > > On Behalf Of claire > > Sent: Friday, October 16, 2009 5:58 PM > > To: ESL Podcast Study Group > > Subject: [ESL Podcast] Do you believe in 'second chnace?' > > > Dear Ed and all old and new members, > > > A very simple question for us all to think about and respond to: > > > Do you believe in 'second chance' in life,at workplace,in > > relationships or in anything you have experienced in general?;) > > > Thank you in advance and best regards, > > > Claire- Hide quoted text - > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". 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