Hello Claire, Charles, and all, In my point, each country has a difference in culture and life style. Something are regarded as curious in the country but are common and acceptable in others. However, first of all, as I think, saying I love you is really difficult when you expose your motion with a girl who you really love. It is possible for you to be confused and worried about his/her feeling for you after your declaration. Although it can be very hard and even have to build a detail plan as worth project LOL in the dating day, it is worth for you to expose your feeling to your honey. In a nice day, your dream come true ^^. In contrast, she/he is likely to refuse or ignore your feeling, but it is more terrible if you try to conceal your feeling and nobody know about this. Feeling and emotion are owned by everybody, no difference in gender, it is not too shame or curious if the active person is a girl. If a gril say me like this, I really respect her feeling and certainly, I treat her well even though I don't love her. Secondly, after your expression, nothing is more wonderful if she/he also love you too, ^^ . However, it is not a big problem if you feeling is not admitted. If she is a good friend, she/he still consider you as a friend and the relationship between you and her is not broken down. Finally, have you ever believe in the love thunder or first sight? LOL Nobody is perfect. Hence, you shouldn't give many criterials for you partner. However, personally, love is most important. It can be seen clearly through her/his behaviour in a long term. In conclusion, you should not ignore the opportunity to say the sweet sentences to my partner ^^. if not, you will regret about this because finding a honest love is diffcult and in the latter time, You wish the time could come back and if only you did like that.
Regard ^^ Jun On Sun, Oct 4, 2009 at 6:59 PM, Charles <[email protected]> wrote: > > Dear claire, > > I think it's a responsibility to say "I love you" for a male to a > female,who believe in those words and relative to a commitment of > relationship. > > I don't know how most of females think of it. > > If there is one told me it,which might be quite impressible now,I will > hold her and kiss her,no matter I love her or not.It's very lucky > being loved. > > The last question is... quite difficult. > I know,life is change. > So the best strategy is appreciate what you have. > > Then,the commitment of rest of life is meaningless. > um... > Seems like,the point is how we make decision. > > Regards > Charles > > On Sun, Oct 4, 2009 at 6:02 PM, claire <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > Dear all active or silent members, > > > > I've been wondering lately: > > > > How easy/difficult is it for you to say,"I love you."to someone? > > > > When someone says it to you,how do you respond to him/her? > > > > Do you think relationship between you both can change after such > > declaration? > > > > How do you know for sure you have found the one for you to spend the > > rest of your life with? > > > > Looking forward to your inputs! > > > > Thank you in advance and wonderful Sunday! > > > > Claire > > > > > > > > > --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". To post to this group, send email to: [email protected] or just reply this message For invite your friends, visit: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/members_invite Know how help us, visit this FAQ at: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/web/frequently-asked-questions -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
