Bahman, What you're actually going to do is create a model in ArcGIS that matches the parameters that you want. I recommend going to the following website for specific answers to your questions.
http://webhelp.esri.com/arcgisdesktop/9.2/index.cfm?TopicName=An_overview_of_model_concepts_and_terms You will create a kind of flowchart so that your data has to be 'filtered' through a series of conditions to determine what is left over (and therefore what will be displayed on your map). Explanations on how to perform each step are present on this ArcGIS help site and they should give a pretty good description for the general steps you should take. Good luck! Sara K.
