On Tue, 2019-11-05 at 19:00 -0500, Stephen Gallagher wrote:
> Randy, I think you are misinterpreting Matthew’s statements here.
> You’re attributing malice and dismissiveness where “text is a poor
> communication medium” is a valid answer.

Hi Stephen,

Text is a poor communication medium. I've worked to remain objective
and dispassionate in the face of mischaracterizations and accusations.
My post that you replied to was not dispassionate, but it's becoming
difficult to remain so.

I've been trying to meet with Matthew for two weeks now so we can avoid
text, but he keeps canceling or declining the meetings. Thus, we are
stuck with text for now.

Matthew, my door is still open to talk.

> I strongly doubt that Matthew (of all people!) is trying to insult
> anyone in Fedora. Could you try to reread his words, this time
> assuming he’s speaking in good faith and may not have communicated
> his points well?

I just went and re-read each of our posts. In my first reply to him, I
explicitly gave him the benefit of the doubt. He did not return the
favor. It's hard to see how accusing me of trolling on a public list
(and in a private message), misconstruing what I said, and claiming
that I said "_they're_ the problem" were done in good faith. Each of
Matthew's apologies were accompanied with an accusation, which
communicates that he wasn't really sorry. A person acting in good faith
would simply have apologized.

> Because piling onto what I can reasonably guess is just a case of bad
> phrasing is bringing the conversation into a needlessly negative and
> personal space.

I disagree that it is simply bad phrasing, but I agree with your
broader point and goal. Thank you.

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