> Or you could use the Mail-Followup-To header (that > mutt and gnus obey) to request a copy. This is what > I like about open lists, if I don't want to subscribe and > get a large volume of messages to sort through. Of > course people using clients like OE, Netscape, etc, > won't automatically reply to you because they (the > mua) ignore the Mail-Followup-To header.
I use Outlook Express to read my personal mail while at work... ;-) I hit "Reply All" on your message and it going "To" you and the list. Normally, I have to delete the individual so that that person doesn't get two copies (I'm not doing this intentionally with this message). I have "threads", or as OE calls it "Group messages by conversation" turned on and it usually works. When it doesn't, I honestly can't always blame OE because you don't know if the "other" person's mail client broke the thread... Hall