Hi Enrico, On 21-05-13 14:19, Enrico Zini wrote: > On Tue, May 21, 2013 at 10:32:09AM +0200, Wouter Verhelst wrote: > >> So, without further ado, here's my draft: > [...] > > As a general principle, I object to any attempt to codify good > behaviour. The DCG, which I thank Lars for mentioning, was attempting to > give clues and reasonable expectations to people looking for them, not > to give rules for people to enforce. > > It is hard to define what is "good" behaviour in our environment. I'd > even think that being unable to define and enforce "good" behaviour is a > prerequisite where creativity is sought.
I understand (and agree with) that goal. In fact, I have actively advocated against a formal code of conduct in the past[1]. However, if we have a code of conduct, it should be both useful and enforced; in my opinion, it currently isn't very useful, and is enforced only to a limited extent (the listmasters take steps when things go really out of hand, and there is some peer pressure, but that's often ignored). I still think that too much policing of our mailinglists is a bad idea. However, I have also come to believe that there is some behaviour that should not be tolerated from anyone, yet sometimes it is. This is precisely what a (good) code of conduct is for. So, logically, if the outcome of this discussion that we decide to abolish our code of conduct altogether, then I would not be unhappy. However, I think a better move is to have a code of conduct that is actually sensible. > Please note that a society where every single citizen is well behaved, > and every single deviant is promptly corrected, is a police state. Correct. > Bruce Schneier's "Liars and outliers" has some very interesting thoughts > on this. > > I tend to work well in communities that are generally made of adults > endowed with reasonable judgement and common sense, rather than > communities of misbehaved kids in need of supervision. Adding rules > tends to nudge things towards the latter. Agreed, which is why I'm not attempting to make any part of my proposal a hard-and-fast rule, and why I explicitly note that people "(...) may have a bad day". > People who don't act like adults should just be treated as such and be > politely asked to grow up, keeping in mind that all of us may > occasionally slip into a childish behaviour on the occasional bad day, > and often all that is required to recover is a friend who kindly gives > the right feedback. Exactly; I have tried to word that, but may have failed. Is there any part of my proposal that you have a problem with, in particular, or were you just speaking in general? [1] See, for example, <https://lists.debian.org/debian-vote/2010/03/msg00124.html> -- This end should point toward the ground if you want to go to space. If it starts pointing toward space you are having a bad problem and you will not go to space today. -- http://xkcd.com/1133/
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