On 07/03/2018 02:55 PM, Chase wrote:
I have seen many instances on the mailing list where someone has
asked for work to be done on their behalf when they are or aren't
(such as I was) capable of doing it themselves and were not publicly
hung out to dry, but that's besides the point.
Oh come on.

I remember Chris asking me to look at ArchLinux because he was *unable* to. He's not a developer, I am, and therefore I spent 2 days last weekend (on my own time) tracking down the #$% bug, which turned out to be a simple 1-line fix in the end.

As a hobby. On my own time. Because I wished to, and because I could and he could not.

You *are* able to get an SF account. The only thing stopping you is your choice not to do so. That's your decision and your problem, not mine.

If peter wishes to apologise to me in private, I will gladly accept
and return the favor, shake and come back to the project, however it
has become distinctly clear to me that everyone in this project,
spare Antonis, thinks I'm the bad guy for a simple misguided message
and peter is a saint; and in this atmosphere I cannot thrive.
Peter can do as he wishes. No one thinks you are the "bad" guy. No one thinks Peter is a "saint". I doubt most of the people on this list give a crap one way or the other. This is the way *you* choose to frame it.

So be it.

I'm done discussing the topic and wasting other peoples time for having to read it on a public list. If you want to continue, take it offline.

I do this work as a hobby, and when I get the same crap from my hobby as I do my day job, the logical conclusion is to cut my
losses and move on.
And once again, this *your* choice. From my view, logic has nothing to do with it.

-jon



​Thank you for your time,

-Chase​

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On July 3, 2018 3:13 PM, Jon Trulson <j...@radscan.com> wrote:

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On 07/03/2018 04:15 AM, Antonis Tsolomitis wrote:



Developers! Developers! Developers!

Reminds me of:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kaJREvJW72g

:)

I do not get this. Is CDE a project that can spare a developer? I do not

think so.

The project does not seem to be rich in developers. There was an

organized attempt

by Chase to have CDE available in Debian, one of the major distributions

out there.

Then there was some messages that were bad (for no serious reason),

the project lost a developer, it also

lost an immediate opportunity to be packaged for Debian, and...

no one talks about this. I do not get it. I think that some people

must apologize for this, not to Chase, but to the project itself.

Instead of this

there is complete silence.

Well I'm not sure what you are expecting. We are all adults here I assume.

People get into arguments, get angry and either get over it, or don't

and quit. I think it's the first time in this group, but I've certainly

seen it in others.

There's nothing for anyone to do, or to talk about -- it's completely up

to the individuals involved.

They should, if they wish, resolve this off-line (ie: not on a public

mailing list).

I'd welcome Chase back, but ultimately it was his decision to leave. It

will also be his decision as to whether or not to return.

I cannot change that, nor can anyone else. I'm not going to beg. Nor

am I going to get involved in someone else's disagreements.

Yet here I go anyway :(

In fact, while I would have been more diplomatic in my response, I

agreed with Peter.

It is unreasonable to expect others to be responsible for ones personal

choices. I don't understand that kind of thinking at all. As an adult,

you are responsible for your own choices, not anyone else.

I can understand not wanting to create an SF account. What I cannot

understand is expecting others to compensate for that decision (ie: do

SF work that requires an SF account). And then getting angry when no

one steps up to do it. That's just a ridiculous position to take IMO.

My response was to ignore the request. I figured if someone wanted to

go ahead and do that work for Chase, they would do so. I have my own

work to do.

But no one did, and he repeated the request, more forcefully this time.

That's when people started getting annoyed (at least Peter did) and he

responded. Very directly, but without calling him names, or impugning

his character. Peter (and anyone else on this list) has the right to

express their opinions too.

If he had not responded, I probably would have along the lines of "Get

another proton email account and create an SF account. Not my problem!"

Would you consider me in the wrong for that response too?

Well, I do not want to be part of this silence, nor I want to be part of

the

"I do not care". I do care, so I will politely ask Chase to get back to

the project

(that is why I cc to him). The project does not "belong" to anyone being

LGPL.

And if someone misbehaves, people that offer to the project should

disregard

their comments as being not important.

no hard feelings,

Yes.

Arguments are common with any group of people. Ultimately, it's up to

those involved to resolve it if they want to. This isn't school where

the principle can force the individuals involved to "shake hands, and

move on".

Developers participating in projects need to grow a thick skin, because

conflict and disagreement is inevitable.

-jon

I love CDE,

Antonis.

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